Ladies, have your boyfriend left you? The only one true guy who you can relate to, your first love. I bet the break up has left your world upside down, making it seem impossible to love again because of the hurt. It's a fact that a lot of females don't know what to do in a break up situation. It's a heart breaking experience, crying a lot and can't explain how you feel. Ask yourself if he really deserves you, but if you really want him back, I'll let you in a little secret.

A lot of females, young and old don't know the first thing to do, to win back their man, even if he has moved on already, you still can. Guys are usually different from each other and confused, so you got to know how serious he is about you and if he values your relationship.

First of all, males are very emotional, yes you heard me. They tend to be tough with a lot of EGO, but actually you hold the power to turn them around your way. Did you know that? I bet you do, but look at it this way, just learn to use it. Your power of attraction drew him to you in the first place, so that means you can haul him in like a fish whenever he gets away. Yeah I know it's easier said than done and you are probably hurting right now. I have been there, especially in my first relationship.  I mean a lot of you probably looked forward to spending the rest of your life with your first guy. Then all of a sudden he decides to change things, leaving you in hurt, discontent and very heart broken. He has ruined the chance for another guy. Well, don't be sorry, you can turn the tables on him and learn to handle future relationships. Seeking help from older women or friends, reading books can be helpful, but they don't really give you advice that works. You may try tips you learn but a piece of the puzzle is always missing, making you feel like giving up. Losing a man is not easy, especially if you love him.

Believe me, I have been there, losing someone you love without a cause. Blaming yourself when normally it's the males who do the harm. I have taken advice from relationship counselors and even joined relationship forums online but they always seem to fail. I realized that I wasn't being told the truth because most of who give advice are men, I guess they don't want to give away their secret. There they go again with EGO and being selfish, don't they care about your feelings? You may ask, Yes they do, but its up to you to be a woman and take charge. Switch up their game, how? Well there are a few ways to do that.

One proven way is to do it psychologically, yeah! Sounds confusing but it have been proven by a lot of women, who have tried. Are you asking where can you get this advice? Well, being an expert giving advice on "GETTING BACK YOUR MAN", I can give you a tip on how to get back your lost lover. First, make him aware of how precious you are, then lead him on and make him want you. That's far as I can explain because I think the process is better explained from where I learned it. I came across two wonderful, detailed books which have given me knowledge. I think you should read them yourself, very empowering books for females.

THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP and GET YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND BACK breaks down the structure in which males think , giving you a clear understanding of making up. Making you happy again and be in control of not getting hurt again. I love those books, they saved my life. I will never be unhappy in a relationship because I'm now knowledgeable.  You can have that power too, it is your right.

Please check out these two short, wonderful sources and empower yourself to be happy again.