Whether broken up or in constant conflict with your loved one, these can be confusing times.
Not knowing what to do next can be so frustrating.
What we often tend to do is badger our girlfriends or boyfriends to make sure they understand that we still want to be with them.
This, however, is not the best course of action.
Imagine if you knew exactly what to do to put things right.
Think ahead and see yourself back together with your ex.
Can you reach this goal? It's all down to what you do next.
The First Steps The first step will depend on what your ex wants right now.
If they are unsure about your relationship and want to break up, then agree to a break up.
Don't plead or beg, it comes across as needy.
It is vitally important to agree with your partner on all points.
Otherwise, you are going against them, and this can breed resentment, which is hard to shake off.
For the way back to someone's heart is by attracting them back, not by ordering them back.
The human spirit can not be told what to do, it has to decide these things for itself.
What if I Can't Reach My Ex? Sometimes they won't even speak to us.
In this case, the best course of action is to send a hand-written letter.
That extra effort shows care, which can not go unnoticed.
Again, make sure to agree with your ex on all points.
Don't force anything upon them, or they'll push you away.