Your man just arranged a perfect proposal date on a starry night atop a hill, with every details of the decor meticulously designed. Drapes of soft cream are resting on a dinner table with a bottle of ice-cold wine waiting for the queen of the night to savor the crispness of its flavor. Flowers everywhere, romantic music playing, a spectacular view of lights to witness, then it starts raining.
You'll never know when fate or even global warming will decide to go its merry way and taunt you. With your heart in your throat, hands shaky and eyes teary, you were about to exclaim the most blissful 'yes!' while holding back tears from falling, and suddenly the skies cry with you as cold liquid shards drench your fabulous satin dress. For moments like these, it is wise to pocket several plan Bs lest Mother Nature, fate, recklessness or complete stupidity cause any hassle to an otherwise wonderful date. We know that you already know that every dark cloud has a silver lining, and in times like this, you should put that proverb to use. Learn how to plan ahead a nuisance so that you can pursue romance amidst frustration. Here are a few tips on what to do in these typical dating wrecks:
Honey forgot the money
It is a courteous act for a gentleman to shoulder the bills whenever he asks a lady out, but it is a very cool move if the girl saves her and her date from having to wash the dishes for failing to pay the resto bill. Be a girl scout and carry some cash or a card with you even if it is in your knowledge that it's the guy's treat. It can be a great weight off the man's shoulders but it's up to you to decide whether you'll ditch him or let him make it up to you in the coming dates.
Rubber anchored
You can't let your date get messed up by replacing a flat tire. Have a crew attend to the auto works, have the wheels towed then wait until it's ready when it's ready then can get back to your date. Walk the rest of the way to where you're supposed to hang out. That way, you'll have each other's attention all by yourself, no red lights and pedestrian lanes to worry about.
Passed away passes
What if you've lost the tickets to a game or show that you and your date are dying to see? Have some quiet time alone as an alternative to a noisy and crowded concert, or cozy up at home while watching the missed event burned on a DVD.
Accidentally in love
Nurse your baby back to health when he's at a halt in a hospital. Your tender loving care will be more than enough to get him back in shape. Taking care of your guy could serve as a great proof of your love for him, so when he's back in shape, expect some better loving than before.
There is an endless list of dating alternatives when a perfect moment screws up. You'll just need a positive outlook over everything, plus your creativity and your great sense of romance. As for the unexpected drizzle on a sunny afternoon cuddling, or a wedding proposal, a passionate kiss in the rain will always be more romantic than anything else.
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