- 1). Keep your composure. Avoid coming across as too nervous or desperate. The end of the first date isn’t the time to express undying devotion or scorn. Keep your hands in your pockets to control excessive fidgeting. Speak in a calm, unforced manner as you recount the night’s events and make your date feel comfortable. Losing your cool could cost you a second date.
- 2). Express gratitude for the experience. This applies even when the date didn’t meet your expectations or dating standards. Show your courteous nature by thanking your date for their time. Apologize for any misunderstandings that occurred during the date. This will help your date see you in a positive light and possibly choose to give you a second date.
- 3). Exchange contact information. Ensure that you both have correct information to avoid missing out on communication attempts. Discuss upcoming schedules to be aware of the best times to make contact. Pay attention to your date’s work schedule to avoid waking roommates or family members.
- 4). Make your intentions known. The purpose of dating is to make a connection with an honest individual. Let your date know that you desire to have a second date without scaring him away--or deal with the issue of never wanting to see him again without hurting his feelings too badly. While some mystery keeps relationships interesting, your date should leave knowing her place in your plans.
- 5). Break the rules. Although many say not to kiss on the first date, use your own judgment to decide whether to take the plunge. If a second date may be in your future, a well-executed kiss may help you seal the deal. Lean in for the kiss without being too pushy or demanding to know your date’s true feelings.
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