Everything was going so well. My boyfriend was very attentive and couldn't be with me enough. Even when he wasn't with me he would call or send romantic emails or text messages, but a few weeks ago I noticed him acting a little different and then he called and canceled a date with some excuse. I didn't think much about it at the time although he had never called off a date before. Then the phone calls became less and less and the romantic emails and text messages stopped altogether. Foolish me! I still didn't get the message. Now he says he needs more space and wants to put the relationship on hold for awhile. What can I do? If this sounds familiar, you need to get started with the 3 most effective steps to make your ex boyfriend fall madly in love with you again.

1. - The first thing you need to do is to realize the state of your emotions right now. The fact that you are asking this question right now shows that your emotions are about to explode. The fear that you might never get your ex boyfriend back, plus feeling that if you do get him back the relationship will never be as beautiful as before. This type of thinking is what you must guard against. It will cause you to become desperate and do things that will only harm your chances of getting your ex back. You cannot force your ex to love you or want to be with you again, but there are things you can do to make him realize his mistake and make his own decision that he loves you and wants to be with you again. That is the trick to getting your man back. You have to make him think it is his decision to get back with you.

2. - In this great game of love we seldom think of why we fell in love. It just happens. Like you have been struck by lightning and all of a sudden you feel you can't live without being with the one you love. We don't try to analyze why we fell in love because once we are in love that's it. But when love ends, the work begins if you want to get your ex back. To win back love, you have to know what caused it to end. A good start if you are wanting to make your ex boyfriend fall madly in love with you again is to realize that men and women fall in and out of love for different reasons. A woman usually stays in love unless her partner does something pretty big to upset things for good. The fact that a woman is home loving and wants security makes her less prone to just up and leave than a man. Once the excitement of the romance is gone a man can become bored with the routine and with his partner. This is when he thinks he has fallen out of love and scoots.

3. - To make your ex boyfriend fall madly in love with you again, the best thing you can do is to let him go. Give him the time and space to think and realize what he gave up. After awhile he will come to miss the dull routine that he thought was so boring. Most of all, he will come to miss you. This is when he will fall madly in love with you again and come back like a small boy that had run away from home. The best part is he will believe it was his idea to come back.