Every man has his gauge by which he chooses his life partner.
For some it is love at first sight, for others it is beauty, or sports, while for others it may only be brains.
But there is an overall aspect too which makes a man open his heart.
Here are some of these closely guarded secrets or parameters.
Physical Attractiveness One may pretend to scoff at the fact that a guy looks for physical attractiveness when he looks for a mate.
But the woman too is no less as far as physical looks go.
Beauty and physique are very important factors in attracting the opposite sex, much as they may deny it.
A good Conversationalist How good a conversationalist you are, depends on how engrossed you can keep a group of people.
Making your conversations lively and humorous and laced with jokes and light heartedness is sure to capture a particular guy's heart.
Attentiveness and attention Are you very self centered about getting attention or do you give others a chance too to tell you about themselves? How people oriented are you? If you show as much interest in them as they do in you then the guy is bound to open his heart to you.
Accepting him as he is - flaws and all No guy is perfect just as much as you are not.
But if you accept the guy as he is and do not try to change him he will see that it is worth opening his heart to you.
He realizes that you accept him flaws and all without trying to change him to suit your needs.
Don't tie him down or make him commit This is a very important aspect that most guys are wary of and unsure of.
Once they see that you are not trying to extract any commitments or tie them down to any expectations they begin to relax with you and open their heart.
Be a good listener Girls are great talkers so much so that they oblivious to the guy when he says something.
Learn to be a good and patient listener and appreciate what he is saying rather than interrupt him to be heard always.
He will admire this quality in you.
Be genuine and sincere This is an important quality that a guy looks for in a woman.
Don't give him the feeling that you're chasing him for his money or his good looks or his intellectual capacity.
Be genuine and sincere in how you interact when in his company.