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Relationship is not about debauchery, treachery, trickery, forgery, ignominy, infamy and obloquy; there is friendship in relationship which is perfected in companionship.
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Relationship is not about changing your partner but loving your helpmate; it is all about understanding how different your spouse is from you and accepting him or her that way.
It is in flower of the flock of every woman`s welfare to know that men are fearfully and mysteriously fantastic; it is in cock of the walk of every man`s interest to see through that women are as strange as they come.
Wisdom in marriage is your ability to know that men and women are totally different from each other, that is why they attracts themselves.
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Relationship is not about abusing the divinity that is at work in humanity, dishonesty and disloyalty.
It is not about exhibiting effrontery or having unforgiving mindset.
It is not about having supercilious and treacherous mission, being someone who brings disgrace on somebody`s reputation or being someone grouchy and contrary who spoils the fun of others.
It is not about betrayals and trials or ravishment and abortion.
It is not about intense dislike or the state of being hateful, being abrupt in manner and frustrated in ambitions.
It is not about having spots before one`s eyes, being in the rough or in the ball park, putting on airs or swearing at one another, playing ducks and drakes of resources, having a squabble over state of affairs, tongue wagging or making one bleed white.
It is not about a threatening stereotypical masculinity, drab monotony of habit towards filling the bill of austere and intolerant attempt for superiority, parting of ways and contravention of right-mindedness.
It is not an act of damaging feeling of friendship and fellowship with GOD ALMIGHTY but a lifestyle that can go to any length, reach the deepest depths or highest heights, and cover the wildest expanse.
You have ability to relate with everyone; let everyone who come in contact with you experience spiritual and emotional close friendship.
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Emotional close friendship should be all about nurturing marital love in view of the fact that marriage is an institution which you do not get into by making tracks, moving like lightening or stepping on the gas.
The decision that is made when taken a spouse does not just have effect on the spouses but effective consequences on unborn generations of the union.
Taking a beautiful decision on or before uniting in marriage is a powerful determination that get you characterized by perfect happiness.
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