You thought that he was the one, but your special relationship with your boyfriend has come to an end.
But is it really the end? Here are 4 steps how to get your ex boyfriend to go out with you once again.
And further on this will increase your chance to get your Ex Boyfriend back.
The 1st step is to consider why you broke up in the first place.
If it was a mutual split, or you both got bored because of relationship routine then there's a good chance you can rekindle what you had.
If either of you were abusive, mean, unfaithful, or possessive then the chances of you getting your ex boyfriend back are quite slim.
But think about it: Do you really want to get back such a relationship? In this case I really suggest you consider to move on and don't look back.
The 2nd step is to become the person your ex boyfriend fell in love with.
Your ex boyfriend obviously loved you at one point, maybe that was at the start of the relationship.
Regardless of when it was, you need to become that person again.
Just think about times where you were totally happy together and contemplate which qualities on you he loved most.
Then be honest to yourself and answer yourself the question, whether you still are that person or what you can change to become that person again.
Correct your bad habits and mistakes.
Be positive around him.
Laugh and smile etc.
Particularly if you had a long time relationship with your Ex think back a view years ago and compare your exposure to each other at the beginning of the relationship and as it was the last months.
The 3rd step is to get in contact with him again.
But only if you've been separated for more than a few weeks.
The first thing that you say to your ex boyfriend is extremely important.
You do not want to say the wrong thing, as that will lead to you two never getting back together.
Don't beg or cry when you see him again.
This will disgust him.
Also don't try to cause compassion.
I'm sure, you don't want him to come back to you because he feels sorry for you, do you? That leaves a pathetic impression.
And let's stay honest: Which man wants a picture of misery on his side? So be in a good mood and show him, that you are feeling well - even without him.
The 4th step is to ask him out for a coffee or a casual lunch with you.
Be sure to choose the right location for that.
No places where you cannot talk like cinemas or theatres.
Advisable are silent Cafes or Restaurants where you can chat and flirt.
And whilst you hang out together, don't let any negative vibes get you down.
Stay positive, make jokes and laugh.
Just make sure you avoid the serious talks about your former relationship.
You have plenty of time to talk about that at a later date.
Hold a casual and humorous conversation and try to be the person your Ex fell in love with.
These 4 steps are the basic framework if you really consider how to get your Ex Boyfriend back.
The most important thing is that you change your inner attitude and build up yourself.
Nobody wants a weepy, negative woman on his side.
Even if you are feeling bad, don't show it outwards! Smile, cheer up and look forward! This will not only help you to get back your Ex Boyfriend but rather feeling yourself much better.