If you ask most guys why they don't just walk over and talk to that beautiful woman they will tell you, "because I won't know what to say when I get there.
" So not knowing what to say, not knowing what to talk about is the major barrier if you want to meet women.
So what is the solution? There is a real famous disk Jockey in Southern California that gives out lots of advice on how to meet women.
By his own admission he is hideous looking (and I have heard that it's true he is hideous looking) (they say some people have a face made for radio, well that's his case) but he still does fantastic with the women.
One of his methods of meeting women is to go to a singles bar and sit near a beautiful lady that everyone is going goo goo gaga over and proceed to ignore the Hell out of her.
This is a real common technique in sales called a "withdraw.
" In sales there is reach and withdraw.
When you are trying to sell the customer you are "reaching.
" The salesman reaches, reaches, and reaches and if the customer is maintaining a stand offish position he then does a "withdraw.
" "I don't think this car is for you.
No the more I think about it, it's definitely NOT for you.
" The customer will say, "what do you mean it's not for me?" The customer now is starting to reach.
The salesman says, "no it"s just not for you," continuing the withdraw.
The customer says, "well it certainly is for me," now completely reaching for the exact car he was stand offish about.
That's reach and withdraw.
So this very unattractive disk jockey continues to do a withdraw on the beautiful woman every other guy in the bar is starring at and drooling over.
She begins to notice this guy that is ignoring her, wonders why and starts to get a little curious.
Eventually as he continues his withdraw she starts to reach and ends up talking to him and he takes it from there adding her name and phone number to his collection.
This is his method for meeting women and it works extremely well for him and he has taught millions of males in Southern California how to meet women using the withdraw technique.
Oh and this disk jockey also tells men to "say as little as you can until the deed is done" because the more you talk the more opportunity of putting your foot in your mouth.
The more you men talk the more chances there are that you will say something she has some major disagreement with "so talk as little as you possibly can.
" So if you are like most men that are worried about "I won't know what to say after I approach her" keep this stuff in mind.
Actually on the same radio station of this famous disk Jockey but at a different hour there a couple of lady disk jockeys that talk specifically about wanting men that do not talk.
"Men if we are trying to pick you please don't talk it's a real turn off.
" Can you believe it? I find it a little invalidating but never the less it takes all the pressure off if you want to meet women, you just sit back and let them do the driving.
So if you want to meet women but you just don't know what to say you might want to keep this in mind as well.
It's just not the problem you think it is.