Oral sex has gone from being taboo to being widely accepted.
A recent poll of Americans showed that more than 50% of young people regularly used this sex act as part of foreplay.
Despite this it is often treated as a secret technique: movies rarely show it and, despite the amount of sex in advertising, it is rare to see this kind of sex act depicted in any adverts! Recently I gave a couple advice on how to orgasm, a girl actually asked me if that meant that they had to have oral sex, her emphasis on the word had letting me know exactly what her opinion was! However for couples that are into it, it is a great way to make sure that she has an orgasm.
The statistics are completely in cunnilingus' favor: only 35% of women regularly orgasm from intercourse alone; 81% from cunnilingus only! How to Have an Oral Sex Orgasm 101: The Class you Should Have Got At School Even for those that don't like oral sex, the techniques that are used in cunnilingus are useful for any kind of sex.
To give a woman a cunnilingus orgasm easily you simply need to find the answer to one question: What Make Oral Sex So Good for Women? 1.
The tongue is soft.
Unfortunately many guys learn about erotic touching by touching their own body.
This is a shame as our own body is built very differently from the female body.
The firmness of touch that we require is very different to what she appreciates.
When learning how to orgasm, a girl learns with a lot softer touch.
Oral sex is more similar to this feel.
2.
Wet is best for both of you.
One reason why women love oral sex is that saliva is a gentle lubricant.
One reason why she often doesn't like mutual masturbation so much is that you hands are often too dry and rough for touching lady parts.
Instead you can make foreplay a lot more pleasurable by using a lot of lube when touching her.
3.
Communication.
Even though a lot of oral sex keeps your mouth 'busy', good oral requires a lot of non-verbal communication.
During oral sex, her body is constantly making small adjustments for you to synchronize yourself with.
Get in sync with her hip and waist movements and you can give her a great orgasm.
Once you get the hang of these, look for similar movements during intercourse too.
Similarly when she gives you oral sex, try and communicate as much as possible without words.
Make grunts and moans of pleasure every time she does something that feels good and soon she will be able to work out what turns you on.
Any time you discover something that she likes during oral sex, you have a key that gives you a universal technique that you can use in any kind of sex act.
Try doing a similar motion in a similar place during intercourse or mutual masturbation and you should get a similar response.
Once you understand her body completely you will be able to make her orgasm any way that you want.