You might have been charmed by a guy that you might have just met and might want matters to move forward instead of simply remaining a friend.
However, it is vital that you know if the guy too is into you or not since this will save you not only from embarrassment but also from serious heartbreak.
Here are a few signs on how to know if a guy is not into you.
You seem to be the only one calling him up If your guy does not call you ever and you seem to be the only one calling him to talk to him then he might not be seriously interested in you.
You can test him out by stopping your calls and waiting for him to call back.
If he does not, then he is definitely not interested in pursuing you.
Your chosen guy treats you the same as your friends If your chosen guy accords the same response to you as he does to your friends then he definitely does not think of you as someone special.
He might either be ignoring the signs that you would have sent showing special interest in him or might be too distracted to comprehend them.
You might need to have a frank talk to clear your position and back off if he is still not into you.
He might suddenly develop a crush on your friend If the guy of your dreams suddenly starts asking you a lot about your own girlfriend then he is definitely not into you.
You should not pursue the matter any further since it will only result in heartbreak from your end.
The guy fails to remember your birthday If a guy is not into you then he will not make any effort to remember any special days such as your birthday, the day both of you met, or the day when you had your first cup of coffee together.
If the guy was into you then he would have been the first one to wish you on these important days.
The guy does not go out of the way to help you out Love calls for sacrifice and if your guy is not into you then he might only try to help you out as a casual friend instead of going all out to alleviate your problem.
You should take the hint and take a walk away from him.
He does not try to get mentally closer to you The guy might not try to find out more about your life or try to connect mentally to you.
He might also not divulge more information than necessary about his own life.
If, however, he only tries to get physically close to you then stay away from falling into a trap since he will only walk out of your life without any warning.
He makes excuses If a guy makes promises to help you out and then makes excuses to back out then he is definitely not into you.
He might only try to help you out of pity but when the time to act might come near he might simply develop cold feet due to lack of genuine feelings for you.
If the guy of your dreams is exhibiting these signs then pursuing him will only turn your dream into a nightmare.