If there was one obstacle that was really common among men everywhere when it came to dating, it would probably be in making the approach. Most men seem to find the approach to be one of the hardest things to do. And even guys who do have an easy time approaching a woman, don't always know how to make their approach work for them so that they end up landing a date or a phone number. This article is going to explore what you need to do to make it seem easy to walk up to a woman you like and get a date with her.

Here are 3 tips that make approaching women a LOT easier:

1. You don't want to put too much importance on one woman.

When you make one woman too important, the natural thing to do is to stress out and think about things a little bit too much. So, just because you might think that she is attractive and you might hope that you really can get a date with her, don't make her become so important that getting a rejection from her would mess up your self esteem and your confidence. Otherwise, you are going to end up triggering your fight or flight response and if she is too important to you, you are going to end up choosing flight and trying to get out of the situation.

2. You have to be able to make small talk that doesn't seem boring to her.

It's a skill that you need to have if you want to have the best chance of being able to make a woman want to get to know you better. In most situations, when you walk up to a woman, you really don't have a lot of time to make a good impression. If you know how to make small talk with her, that won't matter because you will only need a little bit of time to make her feel like she is attracted to you or at least wants to get to know you better.

3. You should focus on making her feel like you and her have a strong connection.

Once you get some small talk started with her, the next thing that you need to do is to make her feel like you and her have a really strong connection with one another. The stronger that connection feels to her, the more likely it is that you'll end up getting a YES from her if you were to ask her for a date. When you can make that connection seem so strong that she is looking forward to spending more time with you, you won't have to worry about rejection.