Our relationships can seem like fragile bonds that require nurturing and respect for one another to remain in a healthy and loving state. It is our responsibility to bring value to our relationships and benefit to our partners so that we create a harmonious and natural balance to the relationship. When the harmony and balance is upset or broken, our relationships begin to crumble and problems arise.

Addressing these problems and fixing the issues to bring back the harmony and balance to each other in the relationship is how we truly develop that deep and richer passion that a good and loving relationship is based on. Sadly when things become to difficult to reconcile then it is often one of the partners in a relationship that suffers the agonizing pain and devastation of a break up, and leaving the other either angry and upset, or completely cold and distant.

I have provided for you a series of 5 lessons to live by which will assist and strengthen all your relationships in the future.

1. The Power Of Your Inner Strength - I've covered this before in many resources and it is time tested advice that I will stick to till the cows come home. You MUST remain calm and find that inner strength within you to do so. Desperate behavior and panic or emotional outbursts of crying and depression will almost never work in any situation, but will also hurt your chances or getting your ex back. Find that inner strength to remain in control and fight the emotional feelings that well up.
2. Never Give An Ultimatum - Staying calm and remaining in control as you find your inner strength to do this, you will find that giving an ultimatum to your ex will never work. Remain flexible and simply meet whatever wishes and demands of theirs that you can. Go along with whatever they wish as you see fit, and remain open to all possibilities. Do not ever give your ex an ultimatum in any situation such as: "...If you walk out that door, it's over for good!" Keep in mind that they are leaving because of an unbalance that has left them disgruntled with the relationship and unfulfilled in some manner. You will never be able to force or use scare tactics to otherwise try and get your ex back. A happy relationship does not work that way, and is never going to be truly happy by holding ultimatums over your partners head.
3. No Contact Is The Key - Some time apart will only do both of you some good and give ample time to heal individually before you can even consider healing as a couple. This is a proven technique that has worked for many relationships that have been thought of as "doomed" to fail with no hope of reconciliation. The time away from your ex with no contact what so ever is a time of personal insight and healing. Right now, the way to get your ex back is ironically by agreeing to their wishes of being apart first. Respecting their wishes and taking this time to reflect on what went wrong, what needs were not being met, and what emotions you were going through as you analyze the mistakes and what went wrong.
4. Time To Get Out - You need to blow off some steam. The time apart is not the time to be a recluse and absorb yourself in your miserable feelings and feed into the depression. The best way to get out of the funk that a devastating break up can cause us to feel is by forcing yourself to get out of the house, and have some fun. I understand that you're going to be miserable and thinking only of your ex in most cases, but this step is an important one. You HAVE to take some time for yourself and force it even if you don't feel like it. Go out and have some fun with friends and family, and try not to discuss the relationship or anything about the situation. Focus only on being out and doing something... anything. This clears the head and releases the toxic energy to a certain degree when we are emotionally unbalanced from a break up and wanting your ex back.
5. Fix Yourself - Remember that there is something unfulfilled and unbalanced in the relationship that your partner is not satisfied with you. It's time to restore that balance and be true to yourself. Find out how you have changed and what has caused your ex to be disgruntled towards you. Find the "you" that your ex found so endearing and attractive to be with you in the first place. Take a little time during your time apart and make the effort to change. BE that person they fell in love with before. Cliche as it may sound, this is ultimately the key. Long term relationships can become stale and mundane, even routine in many cases. With a little effort you can find a way to spice things up and create some new passion and romance in your relationship and get your ex back to a balanced and harmonious state of wanting to be with you.

Now obviously these steps are not fool proof and will require a great deal of your own inner strength as I explained in the first step to remain in control and remain calm. It is these situations that we can feel so desperate and devastated by a break up that it is of vital importance to find that inner strength.

The Fastest Way To Get Your Ex Back can be experienced by following these steps and taking the initiative to keep the communication lines open. After a brief period of time during the step of No Contact, you can get your ex back by opening those lines of communication again. You will find that your ex can be more receptive to the idea of working things out or even discussing the relationship. This is the beginning stage of reconciliation that is outlined in a complete strategy proven to work.

There is no such thing as a hopeless situation, and you can get your ex back even if you think your situation is impossible. A full and comprehensive strategy that can help you get your ex back is a lot easier then dealing with the pain and emotions on your own.

People who truly love, look forward to their "love" being returned and growing to a state of deep happiness. We crave to be loved and hope for our relationships to grow with meaningful deep passion. Love does not mean we are "blind" or ignoring the problems within our relationships however. It means that for those that are willing to look beyond the issues and problems that may arise in any relationship, we simply do not allow our problems to rob us of our happiness.

Most couples can find that they are capable of working through any issue and problem with enough love for their partner. When that love starts to turn cold, and love becomes weak... it is not enough to work through the issues.

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