Breaking up is hard to do so maybe I can give you a few tips that will stop the break up in the first place.
Then you won't have to say I want my ex back because there won't be an ex.
If you find yourself feeling like your relationship is falling apart and a break up is just around the corner then listen up and I will give you some tips on how not to break up.
1.
Stop and look at your attitude first.
When you are in a bad mood do you take it out on your lover? This action will almost always make a person run the other way.
Who wants to be with a person that takes thinks out on them? That's not fun and loving.
Make it a point to get out of the bad mood before you see your lover.
2.
If your boyfriend or girlfriend is in a bad mood do you try to get them out of that mood or do you make it worse? Sometimes just sitting quietly with the person will dissipate the mood.
3.
Think back to when you first started dating.
Remember how it made you feel.
Look at pictures together of happier times and talk about how you both felt when the picture was taken.
4.
Plan a weekend getaway.
And when I say plan I mean make a plan, don't just get somewhere and wing it.
A well thought out plan can rekindle the flame and set the fire of passion to a blaze.
Did you have a special time at the beach or on some mountain? Go back to the beach or that mountain and enjoy it again.
5.
Do you have some outfit that your girlfriend or boyfriend likes and when you where it things just seem better? Find that outfit or one similar and wear it.
You would be amazed how well this works to make a happy date.
6.
If you really want to be with this person then go the extra mile and make them feel loved and appreciated.
Sometimes a good old fashioned foot massage will do wonders.
7.
Ask yourself if this is the person you want to be with.
Be honest.
If you won the lottery tomorrow would you still be with this person? If the answer is no, let go and walk away now because it probably will end in disaster.
If you have tried these tips and the relationship still isn't where you want it to be than I have a book you need to read.
After you read this book you WILL have the relationship you want and won't even be thinking how do I get my ex back.
The magic of making up is a step by step plan of how to keep your relationship together or get back the bond of your relationship.
I love this book and refer to it all the time.