Are you dating a guy who confuses you? Are you wondering whether he just wants a casual relationship, or something more serious? Would you like to know how to decode his real intentions? These three little-known tips will help you tell whether or not he really feels it for you.
Tip #1: Believe Him The First Time.
Whenever he talks about himself during your first date, believe him.
It's that simple! Most of us make the mistake of thinking: "Oh, I wonder what he means by THAT?" or "What's he implying?" When you believe him the first time around, it makes it easier to decode his real intentions.
And don't worry if he's lying -- as you go on more dates, you'll see just how consistent he is with the things he tells you.
The more consistent he is, the more likely he's interested in a romantic relationship with you! Tip #2: Pay Attention To His Actions.
In the dating game, actions speak louder than words.
If he tells you he's a playboy, but he's a stuttering, fidgeting mess around you, then he's probably lying.
And likewise, if he tells you he's a one-woman man, but flirts with you like a pro, it's a good idea to protect yourself with a few doubts.
Paying attention to his actions will also clue you in on what he really wants in your relationship.
If he shows a lot of affection, then he might really care for you.
But if he acts in a confusing way -- flirting with you one moment and playing hard-to-get in the next -- he may just be looking for some quick cheap fun.
Tip #3: Ask Him About His Friends And Family.
Your goal isn't just to know his friends and family, but to get to meet them one day.
If he's serious about you, he won't have any qualms introducing you to his friends and family.
But if he only sees you as a quick date, he's not going to make that investment! What's more, if he hesitates to introduce you to his loved ones, it could be because he's hiding something.
He could, for instance, actually be taken.
So stay safe! These are just three of the most effective ways to decode a man's real intentions for you.
But these aren't all.
There are more -- lots more.
If you'd like the men you meet to take you more seriously, then I'd like to help you!