You have driven him away and now you want him back   You are wondering” How to get my boyfriend back after I drove him away”.   Love affairs regularly have their ups and downs and the downs are usually caused by misunderstandings.  Men and women think in different waysand so the men get frightened and go.  Start by figuring out what it was that caused the problem and the following are some reasons why men want out.

Men are possessive animals naturally, but this doe not mean that they appreciate a partner who takes care of everything they need.  You must make yourself respected by your partner and this automatically depends on how you manage to sell yourself to them.   Men like to be looked after without being smothered and they want women who are able to stand up for themselves.

Men are competitive by nature and they don’t like to hear detailed discussions about your ex, as they see this as unwanted competition against which they are being judged.  Telling your partner that you had a previous affair is one thing, but when you start saying what a great person he was your partner is frightened of being compared to the predecessor.  He is also perplexed in that if the ex lover was so magnificent he is probably wondering why you ever separated from him.

You are a member of the female sex so that is the role you must play.  Men like their women to be as they see their role, and that means not too business like and masculine, but not too promiscuous either.   So try to be feminine and traditional, and in no way vulgar or intimidating.

Men don’t like being bullied. They are uncomfortable when they are forced into a position of self analysis.  They are unhappy when their feelings are challenged, even more so when they are proved wrong.  They will try to avoid being put on the block when put under pressure   and will often get out of a relationship when put in this position.

Men consider themselves as the anchor to the relationship. They consider that their partner has chosen them for what they are, and they don’t appreciate that their partner tries to change them.  It makes them feel insecure because they feel that if they have to change they must have a serious problem.  So don’t try to change him when you chose him for what he is.If he isn’t what you want, go out and find someone more suitable!

Never forget that relationships and people are not perfect.  When trying to work out “how to get my boyfriend back after I drove him away” you should reflection the above points

Never think that anybody is perfect or that relationships must be perfect.  When you are saying I want to “to get my boyfriend back after I drove him away” think of the above points and make sure you do not frighten him away

You should read “The Magic of Making Up”, written by T ‘Dud’Jackson.  He has helped many people in similar situations, throughout the world, to resolve their love problems...

Joe Bisley

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