Many mistakes are often made when trying to attract women.
Some of these are being nervous, lack of confidence, uncertainty, too much to drink, and many more.
A woman wants to know the real you and not the one you think you have to be to impress her.
She will be more upset to learn later that it was all a game or lies.
Be honest and be yourself.
Avoid these mistakes and you should be fine.
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Avoid Getting Drunk Many men, as well as women, believe that courage comes from a bottle and instead of only having a few drinks with someone, they go overboard, becoming embarrassing, out of control and quite often drunk.
What sort of an impression to make on a woman you are trying to attract! Too much to drink no matter how nervous you are is never a good thing.
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Avoid Lying Don't lie or mislead a woman, be yourself, be natural and you may then find someone for that lasting relationship.
Lying or putting on an act will only blow up in your face later when she learns the truth and may cause irreparable damage.
Conversation can be easy if you just tell stories of your life or stories about books that you have read.
It is OK to tell some jokes in moderation but leave the debates of politics and religion for after you are better acquainted.
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Avoid Coming on Strong Don't come on too strong, men like to get right to the point, women do not.
What women want is to know all the reasons for things that happen or are said.
They don't like guessing games, they may be intrigued and curious at first but will lose interest if you play a game with them for too long.
Keep it plain and simple and never put a woman on the defensive.
Sitting too close and leaning in to her without letting her get to know you will give her a sense of unease.
The same can be said for continuously buying her more drinks, as she will think you are a predator and luring her with alcohol.
Never buy her more than 2 or 3 drinks on a first date and then only if the date is lasting for a few hours.
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Try to Avoid Being Nervous You may be nervous and start talking too fast, can't be understood, or don't really make sense.
Speaking too loudly or too softly can also push a woman away without intention.
Calm down and remember she is nervous too.
Not knowing what you want to say or fearing to speak is a fast way for a woman to decide that she does not want to get involved.
Keep the conversation on topics that you know and believe and the uncertainty of choosing the right words will evaporate.
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Avoid Having a Negative Attitude Attitude has more to do with meeting and attracting women than any other thing there is.
If your attitude is wrong, everything will be wrong and you will not be able to attract a woman.
If you think you are going to fail, you will.
If you have a negative attitude and are sure that something will go wrong, you have sealed your fate before you ever started.
Change your attitude to a positive attitude.
Improve on the things you are lacking in and you cannot fail when it comes to attracting women.
Attitude is the biggest factor between success and failure.
It will make everything come much easier.
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Avoid Groups of Women Approaching groups of women can be extremely intimidating and if you don't know what you're doing, you can fail big time! Groups of women can behave like a pack of wolves, they can rip you apart.
I've seen men totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.
Women behave very differently in groups than to how they behave when alone, so try to avoid situations where you will be outnumbered and focus on places you may be able to approach a woman alone.
I suggest not approaching groups of women until such time that you have had experience with women who are alone or with a friend.
I realise that lots of guys probably don't have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don't know.
Don't worry, this will come with time.
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Avoid Communicating The Wrong Signals So what is the biggest factor there is when it comes to approaching and attracting beautiful women? Is it looks? Is it income? Is it age? No, none of these, the biggest factor there is without doubt is communication.
Communication of course is how we talk to other people, but what would you say if I told you that 90% of our day-to-day communication is done in a way where you don't have to speak at all? The majority of what we communicate doesn't even come from our mouths! This 90% of communication is called body language.
Even when we aren't talking, we are always sending out 'signals' that other people, women especially, pick up on subconsciously.
If you see someone walking with their hands in their pockets and their head down, will you be more likely to approach this person? Or would you be more likely to approach a person with their head held high and their shoulders thrown back? The greatest thing about modifying your body language is that the results are almost instant.
From the moment you start using them you start feeling better about yourself and people will be more likely to approach you.
The other great thing about body language is the changes are small and subtle, they can be tricky to use all the time but through effort and practice you will become a natural.